How To Ask For Lingerie This Holiday Season
Deck the halls with… bras and panties, of course. The mistletoe is hung, the tree is adorned, the lights are up, and all that’s left to do is craft your wishlist. What’s on it? Lingerie, naturally! It makes sense, too. The holiday season serves as the perfect time to refresh your collection.
The only question is, how can you ask for lingerie? In fact, lingerie makes a stellar gift, whether from your spouse, or a new flame. And we’re firm believers in treating yourself to some new underthings, so there’s no reason why you have to wait for a special someone to do the shopping.
Regardless of who you hope will be giving you underthings this year, here are a few tips that might help you ask for the lingerie you’re lusting after:
Start a wishlist
First thing’s first: Start keeping track of the pieces you want. Sites like Giftster and MyRegistry allow you to start a digital wishlist that you can easily share with anyone — all you need are the links to the products.
First, you may want to take stock of what you have in your collection. That way, you can add things to your list that you actually need, whether that means a sexy new push-up bra, or a couple pairs of comfy high-waist panties. Be sure to have some variety on your lingerie wishlist! It’s a good idea to have a few different bras as well as panties, and one or two specialty lingerie pieces, too, like a teddy or babydoll. If you offer a handful of items to choose from, they can pick their favorite (the one they’d like to see you in most, of course).
Know your size
This is an imperative step to crafting the perfect holiday lingerie wishlist. If you don’t know your size, how can you expect someone else to? Take the guessing games out of the shopping experience, and get fitted by a professional. Most lingerie boutiques and department stores offer complimentary fittings. You can walk in without an appointment, but it’s advisable to book a time slot ahead of time during the holiday season since stores tend to be particularly busy.
Once you know your proper size, be sure to include that information in your wish list! The recipient will undoubtedly be grateful for this helpful detail.
Parfait Estelle Padded Bra P5231 | Parfait Estelle Hipster P5235 in Merlot
OK, now that you have your wishlist, it’s time to send it. If you’d rather take a subtle approach to this, you can drop hints. For example, tell your partner that the one thing you really need right now is a couple new bras or pairs of panties, but you’re too busy shopping for everyone else on your list. Or, next time you’re shopping together, point to some lingerie in a store window and ask, “Do you think that would look nice on me?” Plant the idea in their head that you’ve got lingerie on the brain, and they’ll likely connect the dots that this could make the perfect gift.
If your SO isn’t getting the hints, though, you may simply want to be more direct. Let them know that you’d love to have some exciting new pieces to show off on date nights, and if they ask what you have your eye on, you can send along your carefully crafted wishlist.
Suggest gift cards
If you don’t have time to put together a wish list, you can always ask for a gift card to your favorite lingerie store. Many shops have stellar sales after the holidays are over, and with a gift card, you can take advantage of those amazing deals. Some people consider gift cards to be impersonal, and your special someone may want to help you pick out the lingerie. So you might ask for a gift card, and then invite them along on your shopping trip so they can be a part of it. It’ll give you both something to look forward to after the holidays wind down. Plus, this way, you can actually try the pieces on to make sure they work for your specific figure as well as your wardrobe.
With so many luxe, eye-catching styles this time of year, it’s hard to resist adding a few new pieces to your arsenal. Plus, those lacy underthings are bound to come in handy under all your party dresses (and don’t forget — Valentine’s Day is approaching right after New Years!). These tips should help you compile the perfect wish list — here’s hoping you find a few fabulous unmentionables under your tree this year.
Parfait Carole Padded Bra 3101 | Parfait Carole Hipster 3105 in Lollipop Red
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Whether you’re shopping for new everyday bras or lingerie for a special occasion, it’s always a good idea to seek out a second opinion. We know how hard it is to find bras that fit well and feel good, especially when you’re doing it on your own. If you’ve ever felt unsure about your bra size or you just don’t know where to go to find good bras, it’s time to let a bra fitter help.
Many specialty lingerie boutiques offer bra fittings. Their expert bra fitters will take the pain and frustration out of bra shopping and do all the work for you. Even better, their product knowledge can save you time and money. Plus, they know where all of the best bras are hiding.
If you’ve struggled with finding bras in the right size, it’s time to make a change. Visit our specialty store locator to find a store near you and schedule an appointment.
Happy bra shopping!