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is lingerie a good gift

The festive season is just around the corner, which means that it’s time to start dropping some hints here and there. If you fancy some fabulous new lingerie wrapped up under the tree this year, you may want to let your partner or loved ones know. But wait just a moment, how on earth can you do that? Needless to say, you don’t want things to be over the top. Luckily for you, you’ve come to the right place. Here’s how to hint that all you really want for the holidays is…. Lingerie!

Try the subtle approach first

First of all, you may wish to try the subtle approach — that means no heavy hints, just low-key ones that will get your partner’s attention. It may be best to keep things simple here. When your partner asks what you fancy for the festive season (and they will), give them some mysterious hints about wanting something that makes you feel attractive and confident. You could even say that you want a clothing item, but say that it’s one that only you and he will see. This kind of tantalizing riddle is certain to get him interested in what it is you could possibly want.

Don’t make demands of your partner

The last thing you want to do is here is demand anything of your partner. Remember, people like to feel as though they have some control over what they get people. So, you need to take things slow.

There’s nothing like someone being super demanding to kill the mood and take any surprise out of the equation. When you’re hinting about what you want, you need to make sure that you don’t come off as too demanding. This is supposed to be fun not a tense or awkward situation. Keep that in mind and you should be fine.

Guide them but don’t tell them what to get

Again, you want to make sure that your partner has some choice when it comes to what they get you. That means ensuring that you show them what type of thing you want rather than being uber specific about it. For example, you could hint that you really like the Lydie range on Parfait, but not give any more detail than that.

That way, your partner will have the chance to choose something special for you that they can be certain you will adore. Plus, they will get the thrill of surprising you with something that you haven’t exactly chosen, but will certainly love. Simple!


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Parfait Casey Plunge Molded Bra 2801 | Parfait Casey Boyshort 2805 in Ruby Wine

Browse lingerie sites together

There’s nothing more exciting than browsing a lingerie site with your partner. Make this a casual activity. For example, you could just say that you feel like looking at the Charlotte collection for a little inspiration. Once you start looking at what’s available, you’re certain to see things that you really like. Make sure that you communicate this to your partner in any way that you can.

You could even ask them what they think about certain things and what they think would suit you. This little tip is sure to get your partner thinking about lingerie and what style you like the most. That way, when it comes to them buying presents, some brand new underwear will come to mind right away. What could be better than that?

Talk about needing/wanting new stuff

Of course, one of the easiest ways to tell your partner that you want new stuff is to talk about it. You may wish to say that it’s been forever since you bought new underwear and that you’d love some more soon. Just dropping that message into conversation now and then could be enough to get the point across.

Don’t be afraid to talk about what you love and why you love it. You could find that communicating this to your partner is easier than you thought. The next time you’re getting changed, go ahead and say that you wish you had some nice new underwear or even a fancy new bra. You never know what Santa may bring you this year!

Explain what you adore about lingerie

Have you ever actually told your partner that you like lingerie? If the answer is no, you may wish to spill the beans sooner rather than later. Go ahead and let them know what it is that you adore about wearing some fabulous lingerie and how it makes you feel. Affirming the idea that you really appreciate this kind of thing will make things crystal clear.

Casually mention that you like the way that lingerie makes you feel and that it’s something that you value when it comes to clothing. Just putting that idea in your partner’s head could make all the difference.

Conclusion

As the holidays loom over us, it’s time to really think about how you can get what you want the most this year. Say goodbye to tacky gifts that you repackage and regift guiltily next year. It’s time that you got something that you truly wished for this year. Remember, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with dropping some hints and letting your partner know what you want for the big day. If anything, this will make their shopping easier and take some of the stress away. So, go ahead — try it for yourself.

Featured image lingerie:
Carole Padded Bra 3101 | Carole Hipster 3105 in Lollipop Red

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Charlotte Grainger

Charlotte Grainger is a freelance writer and digital journalist. Her main areas of interest are health, lifestyle, and relationships. When she’s not writing, she loves reading, gymming, and socializing.

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